Most of us women have turned to be so independent to the extent that at times we stop being ladies and worse, we stop expecting to be treated like ladies. We pay our own bills, support ourselves and children on our own. And who's to blame since in most of these cases the 'men' who claim to be men when they are actually overgrown boys do not pay up to their responsibilities.
....before I get sidetracked, my point was for the ladies, when you're asked out on a date, be a lady for once and get rid of the 'I'm a survivor' suit that always gets in the way when you're supposed to let your hair down. Let the man do his thing and appreciate him by being a girl.
- Don't tell him where you'd like to go. Let him pick a place and in this way you'll find out how he feels about you. I for one like to be dined in up-market restaurants. And if you take me to McDonalds or Nandos on our first date, I'll be secretly looking at this stingy dude who thinks I'll be in for the long run!!! A guy has to impress on that first date. It may not be likewise on all the rest of the dates,(if he gets that far) but the first one should be special.
- Don't tell him you'll drive, even if he drives like Michael Schumacher. If he happens to ask you to drive, rather take a cab and tell him you'll meet at your destination. It would just be inconsiderate of him, what with your 3 inch stilettos and sheer cocktail dress that has to be creased now all because he asked you to drive!
- Don't tell him you'll pay half. I'm a bit too sentimental on this one. It's just a big NO for me. He asks you out on a date, then you have to split the bill??
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